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Letters to the Editor: In response to “Uncomfortably Numb” in ASJ #93
JUST DO IT
I really enjoyed reading your Editor’s Note, “Uncomfortably Numb.” The struggle between living life with adventure and passion, and … doing the “right thing” is a personal conflict that I, and so many others, know all too well.
Reading your article brought me back to my days in Bend, OR, Telluride, CO, and Tahoe when I was skiing my ass off, mountain biking endless trails, rock climbing, and fly fishing western streams. It was an amazing feeling to be able to throw my belongings in my truck and move to a new town. There were times when I referred to my life as “poverty with a view,” but having that element of risk in my life compensated for a lot of things I didn’t have.
Now I have all the other things I didn’t have before – money, a home, a loving wife, and two beautiful little kids. I know where my focus is, where I need to be, and I love my family beyond words. But not having that element of outdoor passion and risk does nag at me daily. I realize that so many people would kill for the “stable and secure” job that I have, but sometimes the grind seems crippling.
I realize that I’m going through one of the most challenging times of family life (no sleep, diapers, constant home repairs, and having no time), but I fear that I’ll slip into a numb and unfulfilled life that optimizes so many of the people I work with.
Don’t get me wrong – I totally plan on being an active dad and exposing my kids to the outdoors. I want them to experience a sunrise from the top of Mt. Shasta and the nervous excitement of pushing their limits. I know I need to … “Just Do It.”
Thanks for listening to my rant Matt! Any advice from someone who’s had kids & pushed them to take risks?!
— Jon Bivetto, Santa Rosa
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THE REAL TRAGEDY
Fear is a very powerful drug. Addictive, often debilitating, it can drive one to make some of the best, or worst decisions of their life. In the action sports arena fear, failure, and fear of failure are dominant and necessary characteristics.
Not doing, or bailing off of something purely out of fear is a very sharp double edged sword. While it guarantees survival, at what cost? It can be very demoralizing, leaving one feeling useless, cowardly and can really screw up your mental progression as an athlete. My close friend, employer and inspiring guide, the late, great Randall Grandstaff used to say “You could put cottonballs in your ears, put on a helmet and crawl into bed. You might never die. But at what cost?”
A long boring life is not a life worth living. I have lost many friends in the pursuit of our passions and I don’t consider it tragic. Randall, McKonkey, Osman, Potter, Pereyra, the list goes on. If you could ask any of them if they would reconsider with the knowledge that it would eventually kill them, I can say with some certainty that all of them would carry on with the pursuit.
Tragic is pro snowboarder Jeff Anderson bonking his head in a hotel lobby, tragic is my close friend Lindsay Brooks dying in a car accident a few months ago, tragic is the guy who works his whole life and all he has to show for it is money.
So as I sit here, with my badly sprained ankle on ice from a fall on El Cap last week, which resulted in me spending two days getting down and literally crawling back to the car, I ponder my lost friends, my many close calls, and my future as a 43-year old skier and climber.
The future is exactly that, the future. It’s unknown, it’s scary and exciting. But if there is one thing that I absolutely, 100% know for certain, it’s the comforting fact that in two months, I’ll be back out there with as much passion, drive, and fear as I have ever had, and I can’t wait.
I’m glad to hear that you didn’t quit climbing Matt – it is the right decision.
— Josh Pearlman, Santa Cruz
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